How Unconditionally Can We Love Ourselves

Of the millions of words written about healing - it all comes down to Self Love.

Of the millions of words written about God, it also all comes down to Self Love.

Anything you are reading, doing, etc for the sake of healing that doesn’t have to do with creating more love for yourself is a waste of your time.

No one can teach you Self Love.  Sometimes people have it themselves and it is soothing to be near them because in their eyes we can see the same truth of lovability inside of us.

But in the end, the journey we all need to take is inside of us, deeper into Self Love.

These simple words “Self Love” point to Truth and point to God.  When I first started on my healing journey some 20 years ago, I thought I was searching for God.  Over time as I became more and more familiar with God energy, I was surprised to simultaneously experience more love and acceptance of myself.   In the end, this was the greatest gift.  For as I could love myself more easily, I could also experience God energy more easily.  And as I fell more deeply in love with myself, so too I found God sitting right there inside of me.  In a way, waiting.

Right now many people are fighting their own demons, demons of self-hatred.  When Hell is referenced, this is what they speak of.  Hell is no where other than in a heart closed to itself.

I wish Self Love could be conveyed easily, but it is generally not transferable.  It can not be taught nor written about in a way that creates the experience inside.

We search for God because within God energy is an infusion of Self Love.  However, most seekers leave the desired experience as an attribute of God versus an attribute of self.   

Rumi said so well “I searched for God and found only myself.  I searched for myself and found only God.”   

Either way, it is within the Divine that we can flush the self-hatred out of our system enough to begin to understand our own lovability.  Through Divine eyes we begin to experience the truth of ourselves. That we are magically precious, amazing loving beings. (Every single one of us)

So, what to do?

Love of self exists on a plane separate from the plane of society.  If you are listening to something broadcasted by media, it is laced with self-hatred. Self hatred exists within the vibration of Fear.  To everything you consume, you need to ask yourself, does this heal my heart or not? If not, stop.

If yes, do more.   

Your lovability is non-negotiable.  It is an eternal truth that will be there waiting for you in every moment.

This experience of Self Love is like a box inside of us that can be opened in a millisecond.  And we have the key.  We’ve always had the key.

This is what the world at large does not want you to know.  It does not want you to know that you are lovable.  It does not want you to know that there is nothing wrong with you.  It does not want you to have a quiet moment in which to begin to feel this.  And it definitely does not want you to know that you need nothing external to realize this.   

There is a broadcast of shame, self-hatred and fear out there.  Turn it off.

There are people in our lives who serve only to remind us of our shame and fear. Take a break from them.

Get out in nature.  To the quiet.  Let nature remind you of who you are.   Journey into your own heart. It is endless, deep and loving.

Begin the journey that really matters the most, the journey that takes you nowhere but here, the journey that takes you to the love of the most important person on the planet, you.